This was going to be the beginning of newest blog entry, and I think it fits in quite well here:
Did you ever wonder, did you ever think, that if only you had said something else or done something else, that maybe, just maybe, your life would be different... for the better? The one chance you had to say something could have made you happier, your life better? Instead, you took the easy way out and said nothing, did nothing, and then your worst fear comes forth. Only after it happens do you realize what it is that you've done, or not done, and you only have yourself to punish. Has that ever happened?